| Adapted from an online discussion. Hi, Carolyn: I just found out that my brother has been cheating on his wife with a 22-year-old. Bro and sister-in-law have a toddler and a newborn. Wife is beyond devastated, as we all are. I don’t know where to begin with this info. Nothing I say will help the situation, so do I just sit back, listen (with rage screaming in my head) and speak only if I’m asked? I feel like a bomb dropped on this family and my hands are tied. — Oh, Brother | 
