Hey aaa,

Our sexual energy often goes unchecked.

A few years back, I hooked up with a closeted guy who was all riled up. He couldn't get his clothes off fast enough, and quickly pushed me face-first into the pillow. Without regard for what I wanted, he immediately started fucking me—and ignored my requests for him to slow down. Because he couldn't seem to find another gear, I had to call a timeout—and eventually sent him home.

It was like having a bull in a china shop.



As guys, our horniness can overtake us. When we’re in heat, it’s easy to get tunnel vision and to push forward without noticing what’s actually being invited. In such moments, attunement can fall by the wayside—so it's worth slowing down and bringing awareness to how other men are receiving us.

Desire isn’t the issue—but when it runs the show without awareness, the other person—with their own body, their own intentions, their own yes—gets lost.

In Himeros TV's Taming the Bull, we get to see this dynamic play out. A horny hookup is ready to take his partner to poundtown when his unbridled hunger is met with calm, playful control. The bull learns that getting off starts with slowing down, listening and asking. Urgency softens into devotion—and service becomes the ultimate turn-on. 

I hope you check out Taming the Bull on Himeros TV. And when you watch the scene, explore its invitation to imbue raw hunger with attunement. Notice the energy. Feel the response. Ask. Adjust. And make something far more satisfying. 



I look forward to seeing you on Himeros TV!

Love,

David Jacques / Davey Wavey
Founder, Himeros TV